Get Back With Your Ex Recipe

Question: What would you do if you chose to get back with your ex but while you were separated some other woman was in?

(Posted by: MessyK on 2009-11-09 11:26:40)

Your home taking your place?My ex and I are getting back together. I am moving from one state to go back to the state I was at. We have been separated for 2 years so in between he met someone and she moved in the home I picked and decorated. Now since she lived there for 1 year I feel like my home and space has been invaded.Am i over reacting or would you feel uncomfortable as well? She also works at one of the job sites my ex works at- he only needs to be there once a month but they will make contact at least once a month..Should I be concerned?? We have a child together so its important I try my best to make things work. He has a child from an outside relationship and so do I these children are older than the one we share together we both had them before we even met. The ex girl does not have any children anyway I mention the kids because we are going to have alot on our plate raising these kids and I hope this ex- girl issue wont brake us up again! What do you think??

Posted by: Danika on 2009-11-09, 12:05:03

If your concerned with how she changed the house around you shouldn't have left. If your concerned with how he will see his x once a month you need to talk to him. If your concerned with the children you shouldn't have left him and tried to make it work. Running away from your problems always does one thing, gives you more problems when you finally want to face it. Should you be worried? Yes, I certainly would be worried that he will trust me to stay with him through thick and thin after you showed him when things get to heavy, your reaction is to run away. I think you should talk with him and let him know, will you stay this time? Will he cheat on you? all things you need to talk to him about but just remember you may have trust issues with him and his x, but I'm thinking he may have trust issues that you may not stick around if things get bad again. Talk to him. He's the only person you should be talking to about this.

Posted by: Roxy on 2009-11-09, 12:46:02

I completely agree with Danika, you should have a quite night and just sit down in a comfortable area across from each other and have a little chat about what is going on and your future.....