Get Back With Your Ex Recipe

Question: Would you get back with your ex even after?

(Posted by: Pianist on 2010-03-01 17:02:30)

If your ex gf broke up with you, two weeks later she started dating a friend of hers that you know? I talked to my ex after I found out she started dating. She told me she didn't want to date when we broke up because she wanted to be more independent. The guy that is dating her now is 27, she's 19. The guy totally played his game and sweet talked her while she was down and in arguments with me. She has dated him for two weeks now I think and she has kissed him. We were together for 3 years... After I confronted her she started crying saying to get the fuck out of her life and then asked what would happen if we got back together while crying.. Should I accept her back even though she has already dated another man and kissed him? It feels so wrong to me but I love her too... =[ Thank you for your replies. I partly think she got with him because he comforted her so much and she says she still isn't over me. The guy sorta helps her cope with being apart from me... But I guess you're all right. No getting back with ex's..

Posted by: Bon Bon on 2010-03-01, 17:04:18

Simple, one word, NO!♥

Posted by: Josh on 2010-03-01, 17:04:23

I wouldn't get back with an ex, ever. Couples break up for a reason..... so it's a waste of time because that problem is going to happen all over again. I say move on.

Posted by: cutieputooty94 on 2010-03-01, 17:06:01

If u love her and she loves u then go for it dont miss out a lifetime jst because she Pucked up...forgiveness is key.....good luck :)

Posted by: Steph on 2010-03-01, 17:06:34

No, don't do it! Don't give her an opportunity to hurt you again. Once is way more than enough in the first place.

Posted by: Tropical_Princess on 2010-03-01, 17:06:36

I know how it feels, It hurts letting someone go. But this is for the best. I Guess you're still young so you'll find more love in the future.

Posted by: Sarah-x on 2010-03-01, 17:08:02

If it feels wrong it usually is. if she has begun dating another man, then it is her mistake. she has to live with it. think about the reasons for your arguments.. that was before the guy happened right? sometimes it isn't meant to be.. good luck.

Posted by: Hunter on 2010-03-01, 17:09:14

If you really love her yes and hes 7 years older than her do her parents aprove of thin even anyway yes date her again

Posted by: Elena on 2010-03-01, 17:09:19

No, she can do it to you again and hurt you again.

Posted by: Miss_Turie_26 on 2010-03-01, 17:09:21

Use your common sense. no!

Posted by: Bubbly on 2010-03-01, 17:10:38

Figure out why she broke up with you, thats the most important that is what got her with another guy, and that would solve many problems, once you know why take it from their also she may have been upset when she told you to get the **** out, confused i dont think she really meant it, and if she did say what would happen if we got back together, in a honest tone, you would only know, then go back with her. You didnt waste 3 years, you still love her, 3 years of love just doesnt die in 2 weeks, unless their were things leading up to the breakup like fights/ blowups ect. follow YOUR heart

Posted by: kelly on 2010-03-01, 17:11:18

Dear X, I suggest that instead of focusing on your x-girlfriend's behavior, you focus on the reason why you guys broke up in the first place. There is a reason I am sure why you and her might not belong together and you need to discuss this with her. The main question you need to ask yourself is if you were to get back with her today, would you guys be happy together or would you still be arguing about the same issues? Also, do you feel that your x-girlfriend is your true friend and cares about you or is she selfish and playing games with your feelings? Do you see a bright future for both of you and can you imagine her as the mother of your children one day? If you were an outsider looking in on the relationship, what objective advise would you give yourself? Once you answer all these questions honestly, I guarantee that you will be able to know whether this girl is worth your time or if you should move on with your life.

Posted by: ZING on 2010-03-01, 17:11:18

Do what I do... everytime and ex broke up with me and tried to get back... I'd take her back... fuck the living shit out of her the same night and then break up with her in the morning and brag about it to the guy she cheated on you with or broke up with you for... she hurt you... if you just let it go, girls will think they can run all over you Oh since it's easier for a girl to get laid then a guy... I'd fuck it like you wouldn't be getting any for a year just to to be on the safe side

Posted by: Rudes on 2010-03-01, 17:11:28

Hi, First of all, that guy didn't take advantage of her, or sweet talked her while she was down. She did what she wanted to do, and maybe now she regrets it, which could be why she's may want to come back. You can take her back if you want to, but keep in mind that leaving you for a second time will be even easier for her because she knows you'll take her back. You have to understand something and that is that we teach people how to treat us. Basically, if you allow people to walk over you and play then they will. She may have messed up leaving you, so let her be gone! Rudes therudeawakening7.tumblr.com/